كيفية التعامل مع أنفسنا دون الشعور بالوحدة
إذا كنت تشعر بالسعادة عندما تكون بمفردك مع نفسك ، فسوف يساعدك ذلك على بناء علاقات صحية والتصرف وفقًا لما تشعر به بدلاً من ما تريد أن تشعر به، فعندما كنت وحدي ، كان لدي شعور كبير بالقلق.. لكنني تعلمت الآن أن أكون وحدي مع نفسي دون الشعور بضغط الوحدة الذي كان يغمرني في السابق، كوني على طبيعتي ساعدني على الاستمتاع بينما أكون وحدي مع نفسي دون الشعور بالوحدة . كما جعلت بعض المعتقدات التي حددت سلوكي تختفي، بعد كل شيء ، في مناسبات متعددة ، شعرت بالوحدة عندما كنت محاطًا بالناس. يجب أن أعترف أن نفس الشيء حدث لي في العلاقات الخاصة.
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كيف تتخلص من الوحدة والاكتئاب ؟
كونك وحيدًا لا يعني أنك تبعد نفسك عن كل شيء
غالبًا ما يفشل الناس في رؤية الخطوط بوضوح ويشعرون كما لو أنهم يعزلون أنفسهم عن الآخرين. في الواقع ، قد تشعر بهذه الطريقة لأن الأشخاص من حولك يذكرك دائمًا بذلك، حدث نفس الشيء لي عندما كنت مستقرًا في وحدتي. عندما كنت سعيدًا لكوني وحدي وتعلمت أن أكون قادرًا على الاستمتاع بمفردي ، أدركت أن الناس كانوا يقولون لي “أنت آسيوي”، ومع ذلك ، فإن كونك وحيدًا لا يعني أنك غير اجتماعي.. أحب تكوين صداقات جديدة ، ومقابلة أشخاص مختلفين والتفاعل مع الآخرين.
أن تكون وحيدًا مع نفسك
ما زلت أستمتع بقضاء الوقت وحدي . على الرغم من أنني لا أريد ذلك لمجرد أنني لم أر أصدقائنا منذ وقت طويل ، إلا أنني لا أجبر نفسي على رؤيتهم.
في الأيام التي لم أكن فيها بعد في سلام مع نفسي ، شعرت بالضغط عندما كان هناك حدث لم أرغب في الذهاب إليه. كان هناك تضارب في ذهني وكنت ممزقة بين ما أردت فعله حقًا وما كان علي فعله.
كان الشيء الأكثر إثارة بالنسبة لي هو أن التواجد مع الناس لم يكن دائمًا مرضيًا. على الرغم من وجودي معهم ، شعرت بالفراغ التام. الآن أدرك أن هذا لأنني لم أعط نفسي الفرصة لأكون وحدي مع نفسي.
الشعور بالوحدة وعدم الاهتمام وضغط المجتمع
حتى لو لم تكن على علم بذلك ، فإن المجتمع يبقيك تحت الضغط. ليس فقط الأشخاص من حولك ، ولكن المعتقدات والإعلانات والأفلام .. يجب أن يكون لديك شريك وأطفال ، يسعى الكثير من الناس لتحقيق شيء ما ، حتى لو كان لا يزال يبدو أنه القاعدة، دعونا لا ندخل في موضوع الأصدقاء! إذا كنت قد تغيرت ، فمن الصعب حقًا التخلي عن الأصدقاء القدامى الذين لا تشترك معهم بعد الآن.
غالبًا ما نعتقد أنه يجب أن تكون لدينا علاقة طويلة الأمد ، ويجب علينا بالتأكيد عدم السماح لهم بالرحيل ، لأن إنهاء هذه العلاقة سيعني نهاية حياتنا الاجتماعية، لكنك تعلم أنه يمكنك تكوين صداقات جديدة ، أليس كذلك؟ يمكنك أيضًا العثور على شريك جديد. لا تقيد نفسك. لكن الناس يميلون إلى فعل ذلك.
لا يزال الناس “كل نهاية هي بداية جديدة”. يواجهون صعوبة في استيعاب الحقيقة التي يمكننا التعبير عنها. لقد علمنا المجتمع أن نستمر في التمسك بهم حتى لو كانت هذه الأشياء أو الأشخاص الذين يؤذوننا.
الشعور بالوحدة النفسية
لا تخف من الذهاب في الاتجاه الآخر ، عندما تبدأ في السير في الاتجاه المعاكس ، والتشكيك في معتقداتك ، والتوقف عن القيام بأشياء كنت تشعر أنه يتعين عليك القيام بها ، ستجد أن هذه معركة صعبة عليك أن تسير فيها صعودًا.. أن تكون “مختلفاً” ليس بالأمر السهل. لكن إذا كان هذا يخيفك ، فكر فيما كان معارضًا في السابق ولكن يُنظر إليه الآن على أنه شيء طبيعي أو نجاح، لذا لا يجب أن تكون العارضات نحيفة بعد الآن. حتى أن هناك عارضات أزياء مصابات بمتلازمة داون ومرض جلدي.
هذه مجرد أمثلة قليلة قد تسهل عليك اختيار مسارات أخرى. لأن الصدق مع نفسك يستحق كل شيء.
الخوف من الوحدة في المنزل
عندما أدركت أخيرًا خوفي من أن أكون وحيدًا ، أدركت أيضًا أن تقديري لذاتي كان منخفضًا جدًا. محاولة الحصول على الموافقة ، إلقاء اللوم على نفسه لما يشعر به الآخرون والقلق بشأن رفض الناس لي … كل هذا كان ما كنت أفعله.
تركت كل هذا ورائي عندما بدأت في التعرف على نفسي بشكل أفضل ، وحدي وأدركت أنني لست بحاجة إلى أي شخص آخر. بعد كل شيء ، الحاجة والتفضيل ليسا نفس الشيء.
يمكنني اختيار شريك أو التسكع مع أصدقائي . قد أرغب في الذهاب إلى حدث. لكنني لست بحاجة إلى هذه حتى لا أشعر بالوحدة.
هل سبق لك أن كنت في وضع مثل هذا؟ هل تتجنب أن تكون على طبيعتك؟
إذا كنت قادرًا على الشعور بالرضا بمفردك ، فأنت تعلم إلى أي مدى سيساعدك هذا في الحصول على علاقات صحية والعمل وفقًا لما تشعر به بدلاً من ما تحتاج إلى الشعور به.
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